Should you compromise in the relationship or for the relationship?

So often we hear of complaints, mostly from women, about their relationship with their spouses. Sure there is different strokes for different folks but I find that women can be picky and seemingly dissatisfied. Now when a woman complains that her husband refuses to "pee" in front of her, is she still in her right mind? Women are being verbally and physically abused, in relationships with men who are addicts and their only contribution to their relationship is to create more havoc in their lives than anything else and her concern is that her husband refuses to pee in front of her?! Seriously lady?!

To share or not to share your partner

In this day of sexual exploration and liberation, we find couples exploring with each other as well as with others or engaging in bisexual relationships. The question is, is there monogamy in bisexual relationships?  A case in point, a bisexual female gets together with a man then vows that she would give up her other relationship and be faithful to him. Is this really possible? Can a bisexual partner stick to one sex/gender completely and be faithful? Is this a relationship that someone seeking a faithful partner should get into and hope for the best?

How to stop selling yourself short

Recently, while watching television, I overheard two women pouring out their hearts as to how they

devoted not only their time but finances on men who dumped them and started feeling sorry for themselves. They thought they were unlovable to the point where rejection, even if it is from afar is taken personally.

Nothing is wrong with being kind to your partner but it should not be the reason to keep him. What you are doing is buying his affection and there will come a time when that is no longer enough to keep him. Unfortunately for you, he was only sticking around because of what he could get from you, not for love and in your desperation to keep a man, you did not recognize that he was only using you.

Ladies, come on! You can do better than that. You deserve better than that! Firstly, you need to get out of desperate mode and getting into self mode. In self mode, you work on yourself and become a better you. Work on your self esteem and confidence, improve on yourself in other areas as are necessary, possibly your job or wardrobe, and then date yourself for a while. It is that air of confidence about you that will attract the man that you want to attract, then he will do the chasing.