Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Signs your relationship is over

There is a saying that it is better to be happily unmarried than to be unhappily married. Marriages nowadays just do not last as long as they used to for varying reasons. We are not going to look at those reasons now as what we will be looking at is some of the signs that the relationship is over.
Women are more emotional and will cling on to the last drop, whereas men will not want to share their possessions so will hold on to a dead relationship.
So, what are some of the signs that the relationship is over?
  • If you have not shared a bed in over two years and there are no other reasons such as a sick child or parent who lives with you and needs constant supervision, or one spouse is ill and cannot perform certain marital duties. So you should know then that it is definitely over if you have gone over five years!

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Is he really the one?

I am all for female upliftment and empowerment so I am deeply hurt when I hear women, my fellow sisters complaining about the men in their lives. On closer examination, unfortunately, it is the women who choose to get involved with men who do not even care about them.
Today I am going to highlight some situations to open your eyes to whether or not he is interested in a relationship with you. Just before I get to that, I will say this: Women please know your self worth as that is one of the keys to recognizing how interested your man is.

  • If he only calls when he needs something from you, he is not interested in a progressive relationship with you. He is only interested in what he can get from you.
  • If the only compliment that you receive from him is about your sexual prowess. He is definitely not interested in you as a life partner but only sees you as a sex partner.
  • If he constantly makes unfulfilled promises then always has an excuse to cover it up. He is not good enough for you and is not someone you should waste your time with.