Is he really the one?

I am all for female upliftment and empowerment so I am deeply hurt when I hear women, my fellow sisters complaining about the men in their lives. On closer examination, unfortunately, it is the women who choose to get involved with men who do not even care about them.
Today I am going to highlight some situations to open your eyes to whether or not he is interested in a relationship with you. Just before I get to that, I will say this: Women please know your self worth as that is one of the keys to recognizing how interested your man is.

• If he only calls when he needs something from you, he is not interested in a progressive relationship with you. He is only interested in what he can get from you.
• If the only compliment that you receive from him is about your sexual prowess. He is definitely not interested in you as a life partner but only sees you as a sex partner.
• If he constantly makes unfulfilled promises then always has an excuse to cover it up. He is not good enough for you and is not someone you should waste your time with.
• If you are the second resort after his other plans fell through, you are not his priority and he is just appeasing you until better comes along.
• If you think he is in another relationship then he most likely is. Let me interject here that I am not talking to insecure women who have their personal issues which are totally unrelated to the man.
• If you only receive from him when you give him something.......You can do better.
• If you are the only one investing in the relationship........the relationship only includes you.

Do not sell yourself short. Yes, good men are hard to find and the available ones are in prison but please, do not allow yourself to be taken advantage of or live in misery just because you need a man.
Times are hard and you hope that he will help you financially, seriously, what has he done for you since your courtship started? I am in no way supporting 'gold diggers', I am just encouraging women to open their eyes to the relationship that they desire and what they are actually getting.
If you are unhappy in the relationship and experience more bad than good, I implore you, please do not waste your time with this person and then you live a life of misery and complain to whomever will listen. Women stay in unhappy and stagnant relationships and complain and expect the man to change. You cannot change him, you can only change yourself.
Open your eyes, do not make excuses for him, take your life in your hands there are still good men around who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.
I hope that this post will be of some inspiration to anyone reading this who can relate.
You deserve better so do not accept anything less.